Hi G, I know exactly how you feel. I went to the co op with my sister the other day and I had a short sleeve t shirt on and the women on the till ridiculed me. She was talking as if I wasn’t there and she treated me like I had the Black Plague. It’s never nice when people put you down like that. People always bully people about things they will never understand. I can honestly say that you and the majority of us are in the same boat. We’ve all got to stick together.
Yes we do feel embarrass about our P but I know the chlorine is good for it. Had a pool for many years before I moved into a complex and I miss it. People will always gossip and point fingers. I sometimes walk with a short pants and people will look. Get the courage to face them as you need to enjoy your life with your kids too.
So, I have read all the comments and I think I have it, I need a good Dermatologist, a dietician, a yoga instructor, a vegan cookbook, a lot more spa days for relaxation and manicures, throw out all my black tops (but black is slimming!), a trip to the dead sea, an industrial size jug of moisturizer, stay of the veggie garden at night, and eliminate stress (which will require that I get a good divorce lawyer...j/k) which a good therapist should help with, oh, and love myself more and worry less.